The beauty of having endured challenges in life is that you become the old leather jacket version of you. The one that feels like home as it moulds to your body and has the fragrance of days gone by. ...
Friday, May 31, 2024What triggers you?
Warning: the following may be triggering to some people. Reader discretion advised. What triggers you? Over and over, I see people sharing how what someone has said has made them crazy. How dare they ...
Monday, September 25, 2023Worst things to say when someone passes...
Worst things to say when someone passesโฆEverything happens for a reasonTheyโre in a better placeTime heals all woundsThis was a post that evoked a lot of reaction from a grief community when I read th...
Monday, September 25, 2023Lemony Snicket's A Series of \unfortunate Events
Have you ever watched Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events?Well, sometimes that is exactly what my life has felt like - just when I am on the brink of a breakthrough, an 'unfortunate' event...
Monday, September 25, 2023The Freeze Response
๐๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ซ๐ญ-๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ณ๐๐ง-๐จ๐ง-๐ญ๐ก๐-๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐?Then here's something to considerโฆIf you do not allow your min...
Monday, September 25, 2023Let's talk funerals...
I was lucky enough to talk with Andre Roupp, a funeral director, on one of my podcasts. Andre is such a gorgeous, caring man, and seeing his post about filling the hearse brought back memories of Tahl...
Monday, September 25, 2023Dreams do come true
When I was in my early and mid-twenties I worked for a wonderful family in Israel. The first time I ventured to very distant shores (and my first time on a plane and out of NZ) was in 1985. The opport...
Monday, September 25, 2023Doing the hard stuff
When something traumatic happens in your life you just want to crawl into bed, pull the covers up over your head and shut it all out. It's called self-preservation. When it is all too much to absorb, ...
Monday, September 25, 2023Surrounded by redwoods
Nothing can beat being surrounded by majestic giants, especially in the early evening on a beautiful, sunny day!I hadn't walked in the Redwoods in Rotorua for years, so thought I would check them out ...
Monday, September 25, 2023Where the Name came from
Thinking up a website name is DAUNTING!!!!!!! What if it sounds crap, or doesn't make sense, or just isn't trendy like those other cool websites that catch your eye and make you want to click into and...